Thankfully, the book of James tells me that, "if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. "....so, back at square one...I seek it.
Wisdom is OPEN TO REASON. (When I see red...I'm far from logical!) Wisdom is full of MERCY...ready to forgive....NOT PARTIAL...but treating everyone and every situation the same. Wisdom is GENUINE and SINCERE.
"Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips." Psalm 141:3