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"the person who would do great things well must practice daily on little ones; and she who would have the assistance of the Almighty in important acts, must be daily and hourly accustomed to consult His will in the minor affairs of life." 

~Emily Judson (wife of American's first foreign missionary Adoniram Judson)

I read this quote in one of Elisabeth Elliot's devotionals on "interruptions, delays and inconveniences."  It was something I needed to read.  Raising little children is full of such things.

I'll be honest...I often find the cyclical duties of wife and mother tedious and frustrating.  They become more so when I lose eternal focus and allow myself to be controlled by my own selfish desires.  I want to get x, y and z done so I can read my book, sew on my quilt, etc etc.  But, this is not the way...or the journey to sanctification that I am on.

So, I'm going to post this quote on my fridge for a bit...to remind myself that because I want to do great things for God and have Him act mightily in my life...I need to keep the eternal perspective that ALL things are to be done for HIS glory... alone.

And as a good, godly friend reminded me recently...

"Finally, [sister], whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."  Phil. 4:8

 

Fall Egyptian Hodgepodge

 You can read more about my trip to Egpyt at my other blog...MomE & Loving It!

 

1. What do you do at the first sign of a cold? Will you get a flu shot this year?

Use the Neti pot...tea time for the nose.  It's AMAZING!!!  I did get my flu shot this year...and my arm was it's usual sore...but now I'm fine and ready for anything!!

2. What advice can you give about how to conquer fear?
When my children are afraid we sing a little song with words from Psalm 56:3, "When I am afraid, I will trust in you."  It really helps when we remember GOD is in control...sometimes I hear Emma singing it to herself at night.
Jer. 1:8, ""Do not be afraid of them, For I am with you to deliver you," declares the LORD."

3. Share two good things about your life right now.

*Positive reinforcement is a working option in shaping the behavior of my children.

*I have a church family that loves and cares for me when my Loverbrains travels (before and after).  They are my family away from family.

 

4. A hot fall fashion trend in 2011 is a return to sixties style...tunics with pants, shift dresses, pencil skirts, cinched waists, bold prints, high necklines and short lengths to name a few. How does this fashion trend fit with your wardrobe and personal sense of style?
I like the pencil skirts.  The tunics with pants remind me too much of maternity...'nough said.  I do have a few bohemian tops but not many. 

5. Were you involved in scouting as a kid? How about as an adult?

Nope.  I think I might have been a brownie once...for a short time.  Not sure though.  I eat them now...er, and thin mints!

6. Apple, pear, plum, pumpkin...your favorite fall flavor?

PUMPKIN!

7. What characteristics do you think are essential in a good teacher?

That they love learning and can teach their students to love learning too!

8. Insert your own random thought here.
I'm in one of those cleaning binds....ya know, where you've cleaned out one area...and now you have to clean out two others in order to make room for the stuff you cleaned out of the first area.  Yikes...will it ever end??

Marriage Monday: Geeky Love Notes...

Amid the "you don't send me flowers, you don't sing me love songs" emotional moments of my marriage there are little bits of loving communication that I overlook.  Sometimes, I'm just selfish and want all the love and fresh ardor of early courtship...and I need to learn that married love matures and changes.
I started to grump about "you don't write me love notes" to my Loverbrains the other day...when I stopped abruptly...because it occurred to me that in his very GEEKy sort of way he WAS sending me love notes.  He's a texting poet.

I held out on the text thang for a long time.  Too expensive...too many ways for people to contact me ALL the time...but since I've given in...I find that I love it.  It's a good way for me to send love and encouragement to my friends and family....and my Loverbrains has noticed this too, as he sends me LONG texts and *tiny* texts of love to me throughout the day.

Ahh...the source of my discontent...it has nothing to do with lack of blessings...and everything to do with lack of gratitude.  Sometimes being married to a quiet man means that I need to LOOK and listen for his attempts at speaking LOVE to me.

COVERT WAYS MY LOVERBRAINS HAS COMMUNICATED LOVE TO ME THIS WEEKEND:
Remade beds and helped in wee hours with a sick Lubby (Don't worry he's fine now...dinner just didn't agree with him)
Sent an extremely sleep deprived MomE to bed early the next night.
Emptied the dishwasher (and cleaned off kitchen counters)
Was kind and sweet to me after I backed into garage door and broke it.
Sent me a text of reassurance of his love after I felt bad about same said garage door.
Asked me out for this Saturday night...a romantic dinner.

These little bits of communication really pave the way for the longer and deeper conversations.

Caffeinated Randomness: Reading Realities...

I'm a very happy little bookworm.  I LOVE to read....and then read some more.  So, when I saw these quotes on Pinterest I just HAD to share...

Books aren't just filled with words, ya know...they're also filled with places and people to meet.

I get absolutely and undeniably attached to book characters to the point where I cry and laugh with them, and physically miss them when I finish reading the book.

Every time I go into a bookstore, I stop for a while in a secluded aisle and just inhale the scent of print and paper.  I get really excited knowing that books are just within my reach.

I have amazing parents who believed that we always had enough money to buy books…even when we really, really didn’t.  Thank you!

Hodgepodge Worth 1000 Words

1. What is one piece of advice you would give a 'just turning' 21- year old adult?

Don't dream too far ahead...I remember always pushing towards what was next.  I think I missed really enjoying early parts of my twenties.  Enjoy the life of a student...enjoy the life of being SINGLE...enjoy the early beginnings of responsibility.  Don't be afraid...God will give you the grace to handle more when it comes.  Sorry...that was more than one piece of advice but...well, sue me.

2. Besides cooler weather (or warmer weather, depending on your hemisphere) what is one thing you are looking forward to this fall?

I enjoy the snuggly-ness...Warm drinks, weiner roasts, beautiful colors and brisk breezes.

3. What sound lulls you to sleep?

I MUST have white noise...usually a fan blowing or humidifier (depending on the season.

4. September is National Preparedness Month...does your family have an emergency 'kit' and/or disaster plan in place?

We have a HUGE first aid kit...has everything in it but the EMT.  We have smoke alarms, etc. but the kids are old enough that we should set up a meeting place scenerio, etc.  I was just thinking about this the other day...

5. How has your blog changed since you started blogging? Or has it?

I think my blog has become more spiritually focused...and hopefully balanced with funny, quirky things.  I think it better represents me...as I grow in Christ but still remain my funny lil self.

6. What's something you've recently learned to do on the computer?

I'm learning how to create a website...the learning curve is steep...I paid for the technical support.  They are worth their weight in GOLD.

7. Is a picture worth a thousand words? Elaborate.

8. Insert your own random here.
I'm really enjoying this new phase of life...Emmer-bean is in AM Kindergarten...which she LOVES!   Calubby is my homeboy and we snuggle and go to the park and have lots of time each morning.  I still get a "naptime" and they play pretty well most afternoons.  Life is good.  I am SO blessed.  My Loverbrains is SUPER busy...but PTL he has such a good job that allows me to stay home and enjoy these Sweet Boobahs.

Soli Deo Gloria Sisterhood: Coffee, Tea or Me?

I heard one of the strangest sayings the other day.

Instant coffee, instant tea, instant love for you and me.

I think the person who was using it was trying to say that the world is full of bratty children who only understand instant gratification.  True enough.

But wait a minute...I don't think it's just the "kids today."   Where am I seeking my happiness?  Satisfaction?  Joy?

"Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory."  Col. 3:1-4

Sometimes living with this eternal perspective is elusive.  I just lose focus.  I start trying to solve problems the world's way.  I become the crazy checklist queen.  I get so busy I don't pray or study...I don't look on little things with an eternal perspective...and then so quickly I'm unhappy, discontent, and frazzled. 

I talk a lot but don't act a lot.  Today...although there are LOTS of legitimate things on this queen's checklist...I'm going to s l o w d o w n....read the Scripture planted about my home.  Meditate on it while I scrub the potties.  I'm going to focus on my children...my precious gifts from God...and lovingly teach them to live for God's glory at the grocery store.

This isn't instant gratification...the sanctification process takes discipline and hard work...but there is instant LOVE for you and me.  John 3:16...

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."

Flip Out Friday

Okay, I just have to get this out.

OBEY THE TRAFFIC LAWS AND STOP TRYING TO BE A NICE PERSON.  JUST DRIVE!!!!!

I am now taking a new route through various subdivisions to pick up my darling daughter from half day Kindergarten.  This involves several left hand turns onto busy-ish roads.  I have no problems with making left hand turns.  I'm a very decisive driver...just as my parents taught me.

My problems come with drivers who are headed straight across the busy road.  They are going straight...so, they have the right of way.  BUT instead of taking the right of way when a gap finally appears in the traffic...they wave their hand to indicate that I should go first.

Isn't that nice??

...UM, NOOOO...

I would like to scream (and if they could lip read they would hear)...

JUST GO!!!..YOU have the right of way.  I don't trust YOU too see vehicles that you are blocking...that will hit ME...And just about the time I decide to go in front of you...you will decide to go and probably hit me yourself.  I just want you to follow the traffic law...Please...puh-leaze...just Drive...so we could all just get there some day!!!  AHHHH!

Phew...

Thank you...I feel better now!  Anyone else have things like this that just drive them mad!?

Hehehe...didja see that nifty little pun there....I feel so witty!